The Vine Wellness Group
Feb 12, 20232 min
This February, The Vine Wellness Group wants to celebrate those who are observing (or not observing!) Valentine’s Day solo. We wanted to spend a moment to share a few helpful tips to identify healthy “green flags” in a potential partner, because no holiday is worth spending time with the WRONG partner...
Green Flag #1: They’re Consistent
Whether its to do with communication, activities you had planned, or overall attitude: consistency is key. If a potential partner is consistent, you are more likely to trust and accept their thoughts and words. Lack of consistency from a significant other is often stressful and unpredictable at times, especially for those with anxious attachment relationship styles.
Green Flag #2: They Have Good Relationships with Family and Friends
More often than not, the quality of a person’s relationships with their family and friends can be quite reflective of the kind of partner they could be. The active fostering of communicative, healthy relationships in a S.O.’s life is certainly a major “green flag!”
Green Flag #3: They Practice Active Listening
Having a partner who seeks to understand alternative points of view – especially yours – is undeniably crucial when considering a serious relationship. Though an individual that practices active listening may not always agree with you, they will often attempt to identify and appreciate another person’s thoughts and feelings on a given subject. Active listeners undeniably earn The Vine’s “green flag” approval!
Green Flag #4: They Share Their Thoughts with You
Sharing our feelings is awkward. While interpersonal communication can come more naturally to some, a person’s emotional openness can be a key indicator in identifying a potential partner. Any partner willing to verbalize their thoughts and be vulnerable is fantastic evidence of a reliable significant other.
Green Flag #5: They Respect Your Boundaries
Before considering someone you’re interested in for a long term relationship, consider their response after establishing your personal boundaries. Individuals that have a healthy understanding and appreciation for their partner’s boundaries earn our stamp of approval –undoubtedly a “green flag” indeed!
Want to read more about identifying and fostering a healthy relationship? Also read January 2023 blog post on "Attached: The Book".
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